Getting
engaged is one of the happiest and romantic times
of your life. Whether you have been courting for just
a few weeks or a few years you are jointly making
both a personal and public commitment to get married
and to spend the rest of your lives together.
Getting 'engaged to be married', to give it its full
title, has its roots firmly in the past. In days of
old, the engagement period was a time to negotiate
a 'bride-price' since the family of the women was
losing a working member of the family and they had
to be compensated for her loss. Centuries later, the
situation was reversed with fathers paying their future
son-in-law a payment or 'dowry' to marry off their
daughter.
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